What is The Most Important Negotiation in The Sale of Your Property?
If you are involved with real estate investing in any way, or particularly if you are buying property in Florida, you'll want to learn negotiation. On a basic front negotiation is when you communicate or banter amongst the parties until a familiar ground is attained. Infrequently in life is there a state of affairs that is perfect for all the people involved, thus compromise is the method that allows the different people, who are separated on agendas, to come together and attain an agreement. There are people not familiar with negotiation and there arequalified negotiators who have a wealth of knowledge behind them; here are a few ideas concerning the art of negotiation when buying or selling real estate.
The initial item to consider on is this, what exactly do you feel you must in your talks?
A seasoned negotiator is person who looks at people and what they are trying to get to. They are able to look at the problem and know what the people involved are trying to achieve; they need to be very tuned in on the facts of negotiation, but realize there are people involved in the journey. When you are involved with real property, you must be very by the numbers in explaining your position about what is expected, and to do so in a clear and calm manner.
The point you want to reach is pretty clear, you want to buy your dream home, you need to close the home at the bottom dollar, and you need all this to close within a fixed period of time.
Of course, you'll need to study the proposed purchase with a veteran eye and make certain you are obtaining exactly what you are expecting, meaning is the property in the expected shape, or are repairs needed?
Are there any legal or survey issues with the property? This is something vitally significant and you'll want to do your research well before the first meeting with the seller. All these things need to be performed with professionalism, without angry words or emotions distorting the the facts; be friendly but stand your ground. Your game plan is to have a good, proper and legal contract signing, then move forward without having further issues to work through.
Of course everyone has a style that works for them, but overtime we've discovered a spirit of mutual cooperation, of striving to work through a problem works better than carrying a large hammer or trying to appear domineering (you catch more flies with honey). The plan is to walk forward toward the finish line, solving or eliminating difficulties as they come up, so both the buyer and seller feel good with the results.
You may have heard (and it's good advice) to be sure that your terms are transcribed, put it on paper so all parties responsible know precisely their obligations and how the deal will close.
What we are taking about is certainly what is desired, howevernot everyone works or does a deal in that manner and sometimes parties are very hard to deal or complete a deal with. This type of individual, who can be a man or woman, can appear negative toward the plan in general, be emotional to the point of wanting to squash the plan. This is where being a good negotiator (or obtaining the services of a good negotiator) may really work in your favor; since most people's reaction is to respond in kind and quite frankly, that doesn't work. If you respond emotionally, you are simply letting them have the advantage, do not let your feelings to play into your thought process or negotiating standards.
Pay attention to true intent of what they are talking about, even if they are talking in a difficult or angry manner, make certain you do not answer in kind. If you have a particular price you are shooting toward, stand your ground while still being compassionate and be ready to explain that the price you're asking for the home was not pulled out of thin air, but is based on comparables. Be certain to prepare a written summary at the completion of your negotiations, whether successful or not, so all parties understand what particularpoints were in agreement and those which weren't.
Decideing to sell a home can be an emotional journey as those selling the home might have deep seated histories and emotions associated with the home that the new buyer does not understand or realize. Try to discover what can be changed and what is written in stone, and then work on the points that can be worked on, leaving the others till near the end, or maybe out of the negotiations completely.
Learn more about real estate negotiation and investing from Ron Rogers at http://www.realestatelistingsflorida.com/
Published August 6th, 2007
Filed in Business, Real Estate




